self note-
suppose there are only 3 days in an year – 1,2,3
group has 4 people – r=4
then a situation with bdays like (1,1,2,2) is valid bcz person1 has same bday with p2 , p2 has same bday with p1 , p3-p4 and p4-p3.
so total 4 person have same birthdays which is >= at least 3 person having same birthdays