i)m+n should be even and we know even + even =even and odd+odd=even
So we can draw a DFA having even no of a's and even no of b's or with odd no of a's and odd no of b's.
L1=(aa)*(bb)* + a(aa)*b(bb)*
ii)But for L2 it is given m-n=4 which means we need to do comparison and count no of a's and b's which is not possible with DFA's because it has finite memory.