Take base set $S=$$\left \{ 1,2,3 \right \}$
Now take the Relation R on the Base set S ,
$R=\left \{ (1,1),(2,2),(3,3),(1,2),(2,1) \right \}$
This relation is reflexive but not anti-symmetric .
$R1=\left \{ (1,1),(2,2),(2,1) \right \}$
This relation is anti- symmetric but not reflexive .