Basically I thought like this [I might be even wrong],
Given 2 variables, either one of them must be dominant
So, actually the recurrence relation will be like T(n)+T(r)=T(n-1)+T(r-1)+T(n-1)+T(r)+1
But, as mentioned in the previous comments n>r, which means T(n)>>>T(r)
So, I considered only T(n) and arrived at the recurrence relation