If it is Inclusive OR, then you can take soup or salad or both. If it an Exclusive OR, then you can take soup or salad but not both. Since both of these deserts are of the same type. surely the exclusive or was intended.
Here is a similar example from Kenneth Rosen(Page 5),
when a menu at a restaurant states, “Soup or salad comes with an entree,”
the restaurant almost always means that customers can have either soup or salad, but not both.
Hence, this is an exclusive, rather than an inclusive, or.